An idylic Sunday night in front of the TV with me and the wife watching the Academy Awards and in an instant a blur of white fur, primeval growling, and gnashing teeth...and that's how it was in a few terrifying seconds. It came out of nowhere. We were totally unprepared. Our two white, cute, lovable, darling, child-like Westie dogs were transformed into unrecognizable monsters. My immediate reaction was to shout at them to stop. Wolfie begrudgingly came towards me and I told him to "go outside!" He growled again in defiance. I repeated myself. He then went outside but immediately came back staring at us. We were in shock. What the hey just happened? Instinct had told us to not physically try to break up this fight. Neither one of us wants to get bit. Westies have unusually large, strong teeth for such a small dog. We have seen what they are capable of. They were beyond agitated. They were in high adenaline survival mode.
For the rest of the night we kept them separated. They both seemed spent. We had made it clear that what had happened was not acceptable. We both knew that being animals, they were not to blame. No one was. But we needed to understand why it happened. Luckily, no one was hurt. It was more of a scuffle than a fight to the death, but we have seen signs of Bella trying to exert her dominance over Wolfie when it came to getting attention from my wife. Just before the scuffle, both dogs were lying on either side of my wife on the couch. I noticed Wolfie get up and put his head next to Bella's shoulder...it looked innocent enough to me...but that's when all hell broke loose.
I have to remember that in a dog's world they go by the rules of the "pack" which have evolved over tens of thousands of years. I am the alpha dog of the pack...no question about it. But when it comes to Wolfie and Bella, Wolfie is the alpha dog and basically he was trying to remind Bella of her place in the pack, that he comes first when it comes to things of value...food, toys, and attention. She unequivocally told him to piss off and that's when things escallated. Wolfie is very layed back and it takes a lot to get him going. Bella is the communicator and is more territorial and aggressive. I've learned that it is rare for two dogs of opposite sex to fight; it usually happens between the same sex.
The day after this all happened I left the dogs alone until supper. They were both very timid. When I let them know I still loved them they seemed very relieved and started to play together. Now we have to figure out how to work things out so this never escallates into an all out battle. I was watching a TV program on dogsledding and you could clearly see the heirarchy between the dogs. And when they got into fights it was bloody and often one dog was killed. They don't experience remorse or jealousy but they have those instinctual "rules". What did I learn? This happens. It's normal. Don't ever try to physically break up a dog fight. Sometimes treating our pet dogs as kids can lead to this kind of thing. Maybe they become too attached? I don't know, I just hope it doesn't happen again.
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